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If You Have Just Broken Up

I know it's crazy when that happens. They will tell you they loved you ,that you're the one. They will say to you that you're different and you'll gave them everything but what happens next. They're still going to left you.

Sometimes we might not be perfect, but we're a good girlfriend/boyfriend. You cared for him or her. We went out of our ways for them. Sometimes we even put aside our own priorities for them. We will always worried that if we wasn't always there for them , they might leave, but all at last they would left anyway.

It's so dumb , we might not know why we still care after everything. We keep scrolling through their Facebook, Instagram, whatsapp and we shouldn't care but we keep doing that.

But here's the thing, I think you can really start focusing on yourself when this is the time. So much of your energy was drawing from that relationship. Take your focus so much. You are putting aside your work, you are putting aside your fiends. And so often in our relationship we end up losing ourselves.

So this is the time you will be able to find yourself again. I think you have to take a moment, take a step back, pause, think. And use this as a time in your life to re-invest in your own happiness, your own fulfillment. Ask yourself how; what am I really passionate about? What is it about which I am excited. What does it really drive and fuel me?

And when you start there, you'll find that you're not going to look for someone else to fill those gaps. And one thing I really want you to know is that it's not about being happy with someone, it's about being someone who makes you happy.

I talk about been with someone who makes you happy "From my previous post".

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