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A Relationship Early Stage

Building healthy patterns early in your relationship can establish a solid foundation for the long run. When you're just starting a relationship it's important to :

Build ~:
Build a foundation of appreciation and respect. Focus on all the considerate things your partner says and does. "Happy couple make a point of noticing even small opportunities to say "thank you" to their partner" rather than focusing on mistakes their partner has made.

Explore ~:
Explore each other's interests so that you have a long list of things to enjoy together. Try new things together to expand mutual interests.

Establish ~:
Establish a pattern of apologizing if you make a mistake or hurt your partner's feelings. Saying "I'm sorry" maybe hard in the moment, but it goes a long way towards healing a rift in a relationship. Your partner will trust you more if he or she knows that you will take responsibility for your words and actions.


  • Relationships Change ~: changes in life outside your relationship will impact what and need from the relationship. Since change is inevitable, welcoming it as an opportunity to enhance the relationship more fruitful than trying to keep it from happening.

  • Check in Periodically ~: occasionally set aside time to check in each other on changing expectations and goals. "If a couple ignores difficult topics for too long, their relationship is likely to drift into rocky waters without their noticing. 

What to do when conflict arises~:

Disagreements in a relationship are not only normal but, if constructively resolved, actually strengthen the the relationship. It is inevitable that there will be times of sadness, tension, or outside angel between you and your partner.
      The source of these problem may lie in unrealistic/unreasonable demands, expected expectations, or unresolved issues/behaviours in our partner or in the relationship. Resolving conflicts requires honesty, a willingness to consider your partner's perspective even if you don't fully understand it and lots of communication. Healthy communication is critical, especially when there are important decision regarding sex, career, marriage, and family to be made.

A real relationship has fights, trust, pain,arguments, faith,tears,patience,secrets,jealously and love.

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